Orthodox christian views on dating
” I think it takes a little more than just going out somewhere, right?
Dating gives us a unique opportunity to find out just how generous or selfish, patient or impatient, kind or mean-spirited we really are, not what we think we are.
Physical attraction is healthy, since God has given us these feelings as well.
If we are to have a healthy relationship, however, even a “healthy crush,” physical attraction cannot be the only attraction we feel, and we should not be duped by pop culture into thinking it is. “Love” is an emotional reaction, yes, and something physical, but it is also very much a function of our soul, something we truly realize in our faith in Jesus Christ who loves each of us. I‘m thankful for the fact that I have ended up with THE right girl.
This month, I want to discuss what is commonly the “next step” following the initial attraction- going out with someone.
It usually goes something like this: you find someone attractive, you want to spend time with them, and if they say yes, the two of you go to dinner, or a movie, or to do something fun with a group of friends.